Originally Posted By: 75Shade
Yeah well I have already stated that I wont move from the house and it wasnt quite a [censored] storm. She cried and said she could never be with me.

I just said that this is my home too and that I should be able to be here. We have no parenting plan
But we have been acting separated partially.
I am most worri d above all how it is perceived that I move out of my own home for her affair and divorce.


is that a legal concern or what?

Are you planning to use her affair as grounds for the divorce you don't want?

Whose perception of you moving out, are you worried about?


Finally, make sure your DB coach has all of the information they need to advise you. I am very uncomfortable being asked to counter their suggestions,

or be part of a poll. I do understand your desire to fix this. I really do get that.

Just remember the oft used phrase here, "this is a marathon, not a sprint."

Sadly, there are no quick fixes. And there are certainly no painless ones.


M: 57 H: 60
M: 35 yrs
S30,D28,D19
H off to Alaska 2006
Recon 7/07- 8/08
*2016*
X = "ALASKA 2.0"
GROUND HOG DAY
I File D 10/16
OW
DIV 2/26/2018
X marries OW 5/2016

= CLOSURE 4 ME
Embrace the Change