Do any of you know what to think if I have been really nice and all of a sudden she becomes very short and insensitive? Maybe I should stop being nice.. im just being polite not doing favors or anything.
Being kind does not mean being a doormat. I cannot think of a time when Not being kind would help you.
You say you are not doing favors, just being polite. Fine. Good. OR are you saying you are only being polite as a tactic to get a reaction from her?
and now you want to be nasty to prove...what?? How could that possibly help?
Don't confuse kindness with weakness, or rude behavior with healthy boundaries.
You are only in charge of your behavior. Stop hoping your choices will change hers. That's just manipulation, and you have a short timeline for when you expect her to change in reaction to you. This is a marathon, not a sprint.
Make your choices to be a man only a fool would leave, a man of strength and honor.
And turn the rest over to God (as you understand him). Let go of the results.
When you know in your heart that you are the man you were meant to be, hold your head high and be at peace.
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