Yeah, the common theme that brought all of us here is a big hot mess. I would say to you- plan each day as if she is not going to communicate or respond to you at all. Have zero expectations. I know it breaks your heart! But this will help the cycle of anxiety-driven thoughts that spin in your head. If you overthink all of this, it can be confusing, but then again... as someone (Jeep I think) said- it's really so simple. LET GO OF HER. I don't mean that to sound harsh. I just wish someone could have reached through the internet and shaken me that first week or so, as I (figuratively, thank God) clung to his car bumper as he backed out of the driveway. THAT DID NOT WORK SO WELL FOR ME. And just FWIW, facebook can be fun on your birthday, but overall, that's about all. No one's posts reflect their true lives. Don't get hung up there. ((((jbroken))))
M-60 H-51 M-14 years BD 12/26/16 S 1/1/17
"First the pain, then the rising." Glennon Doyle Melton
