Originally Posted By: WshIKnw
Are you saying that my wife and I could never have a successful relationship again or that things would never be the same with her? Being the same isn't necessary, and I wouldn't want the dissatisfaction to return, anyway. I'd just want the good part of our relationship back.


Not at all.

Any R you have is likely a new one. Going back to the old won't happen. It's gone.

Why only want the 'good' it wasn't enough last time, why not want different and wonderfully connected.

That requires shift in you.

V


Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose.
V 64, WAW