Friends,

Thanks for all your support, advice and kind words over the last few days. It has been extremely helpful to navigate these tough waters I've found myself in.

It's been a week since I've GD (well, sort of). I'm just wondering, how long should I do this for? And do I initiate first contact or should I just hold-off until the W makes the first move? What if she doesn't for a month or so?

In terms of GAL, I've decided I'm going start doing this in small steps - not for the W but for me. I still not clear whether I should let it be seen on social media? Any advice?


Me:35 W:35
M:5 T:7
NO KIDS
S: 3rd Nov 2016 to 4th Feb 2017
BD: 7th Mar 2017
GD: 6 weeks