Are you saying that my wife and I could never have a successful relationship again or that things would never be the same with her? Most spouses who leave their marriage, (regardless of OPs) , will not return to the marriage they left.
So if YOU are not going to change, there is very little hope of a recon, that will last.
What are you doing to increase the chance of her coming back? What are you doing to prepare for a happy life, without her?
Can you see that those^^^ 2 options require similar actions from you?
Being the same isn't necessary, and I wouldn't want the dissatisfaction to return, anyway. I'd just want the good part of our relationship back.
that really is what everyone wants. Wishing and wishing, won't get you there.
What do you think will?
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
