Thanks for your advice. As we are going Thru mediation first it for me and the wife to sort out. I'm now thinking I only want one night a week which would be Tuesdays and my parents have the children on A Tuesday afternoon so my wife cannot expect them to have them at her house. I'm sure we will get it nailed the only thing I have going for me is that she is from a broken family so knows how important access is. We just speaking to a friend who is in the same boat but not married and don't own a property so they have just split. I have months of this shite got to sort out parent orde and finances and then sell the house. That is the only bit that is either a good thing for her to come out of this fog or whatever she is going thru or for me to actually detach properly.
Is just rubbish being in limbo. Sat here on a Saturday late afternoon with one chil who is already getting grotty for not having a sleep so I'm stuck here facing yet another eveing in. Might make the most of it and treat myself to a movie and an early night with some db reading.
Me:43 W:34 T10 M7 D-5 S-1 Dec16- w says we need mc Jan 17- w doesn't commit to mc Feb 17 - ea discovered Dec 16 D-day Feb 17- one night hook up March 17 w wants out but won't file