First time post feeling lost and confused

[dodog]

I seen a lawyer and I know what I have to give legally with regard to child support the next problem is that I earn 3 times as much as her and she knows it so she is going for 60% of the house. Half childcare cost for the nanny and wants 500 a month spousal maintenance. All she keeps saying is that you will still have twice as much surplus income than me if you agree to this. Yeah I know but why the hell shoildni fund you to a lifestyle we had when we were married. It's going to get so messy the only assets we have is the house. She keeps saying that she is being fair in what she is asking for. I know it's for my kids and to be able to get a riff over there heads but it still pains me hearing that all she is concerned about is the financials