First time post feeling lost and confused

[dodog]

Thanks yes mediation in the uk starts with independent meeting first to explain how it all works then it starts about 4 weeks later. First topic is custody. I was aiming for 2 nights a week and every other weekend, we have a nanny to tend to the children 3 days a week and the wife does the other 2 days. I have mentioned this and she is in agreement but wantabthe nanny to songhe care at hers and just bring them to me for the evening. My argument is that if they are my days then the care gets done at my place. But after taking to my dad yesterday he has said that maybe just one night a week would be better and every other weekend. So anyway that's the first hurdle. The finances well that's a whole new ball game.