25yearsmlc thank you for coming on board. I will try answer as best I can.
Standing for my marriage is making sure that I am strong enough to support my H while he is going through the process on MLC. That my marriage will be a solid friendship in which we can grow together even when one has to lean on the other.
I am not sure about OW looking at the moment, his actions don't point that way but with pregnancy these concerns up to surface with me, insecure. I guess I am not implementing a lot of positive mental attitude at those points.
I don't want out of marriage per say I want a different one ,the one we had but that will take time. Examples from past affair 7 years ago and another last year June and I saw contact on social media in November. All finished but I don't look anymore, if I feel uneasy I ask but he is a stonewall at times.
Married over 12 years, 2 kids. Under 11. He seems depressed but will not talk to anyone, all I can do is be here for him. I would like him to simply hug me without prompting it. I try give him space as he is quite introvert and that I never did before but to me thge space is hardening my heart to our love. I am speaking to T about opening up again but after the recent replay I am scared.
