You are doing all of the right things. I would continue as you have been and continue to listen, validate and affirm and be sure to thank him when he does things for you.
I think you are doing great! Keep up the good work!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
