Hi cadet, thank you for your kind words and sage advice. I am currently gal returned to M/arts and my 2 daughters are coming with me. It's really
heart warming to share this with them.
Also making my way through Sandi2's posts which are very insightful and sleeping me greatly to understand.
I wish to know opinions about the following. The O M has last week dropped my wife saying that he doesn't want to come between us( re my first post). My w is still showing me disrespect and is clearly upset at his leaving and emmotionaly hooked.
I wonder if I should write or email her apologising for my part in the breakdown of our relationship which I believe is substantial and also warn that any relationship she starts on tinder is likely to fail (knowing it has temporarily at least)stating that men on there are normally after fun rather than the relationship she craves and may manipulate to get their way. (I am worried that this may be the case and she has just arranged for our youngest to be out the way for the first time since he dropped her).
