No reason for a legal divorce but why wait is my thought process? If not now, when? Everyday she continues the affair and "me allowing it to happen" makes me weaker. Doesn't it make me strong to file for divorce and show that I will not tolerate this? I understand detaching is in theory to show this but doesn't a divorce speak louder?
Do you want to be divorced from her???
If not, then aren't you, and your feelings a pretty dam good reason to wait? It doesn't make you strong to get divorced, divorce is easy, it's just paperwork..
Now let me ask you, why do you think getting divorced right now is good?
Originally Posted By: doodler
Originally Posted By: sellout
What if.... I semi-detach and see what happens in the next 2.5 weeks and then if that doesn't work, then detach?
sellout,
I'm sorry to be the one to deliver the news, but semi-detaching requires at least three weeks.
Three weeks but only if your fully focused on not completely detaching... If your only partially focused on whether or not to be detached, then it could take much longer and it is very hard to track what percent detached you actually are... it's all very confusing.
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