First, detachment is going to take longer than 3 weeks. You still have work to do to wrap her head around what it mean.

Second, you are using filing for D to snap her out of her funk. It could possibly have an affect on her. Even if it is manipulation that might backfire.

Third, if she decides to work on your M/R, it will need to be taken slowly. Neither of you have the tools to get over this yet.


Me:45 ExW:48
M:04/97
3 Bombs & 2 ReCons
1st BD 11/10
D Finalized 4/20
D-16 S-14
Going in one more round when you don't think you can. That's what makes all the difference in life.~Rocky Balboa