No reason for a legal divorce but why wait is my thought process? If not now, when? Everyday she continues the affair and "me allowing it to happen" makes me weaker. Doesn't it make me strong to file for divorce and show that I will not tolerate this? I understand detaching is in theory to show this but doesn't a divorce speak louder?


Me: 38
Her: 33
Bomb: 1/6/2017
Separated: 1/10/17
Together: 16 Years
Son 12 Years Old
She and Son still at the house
Divorce Filed/Retracted Multiple Times
Divorce: scheduled to be final 6/20/17