WW with affair moved out 4+ weeks ago

[15Stang]

Thanks Jeep 74.
I truly didn't mean to justify her actions by saying she is 'sick'. I understand where you are coming from. Yes, this took planning and has been well thought out. That being said I thought this went against her morals and what she believed as true. This is what I meant by sick. Has she changed her morals and beliefs? I can't answer that question but her actions would say she has. And to your point I guess that really isn't sickness at all. It's her choices and she has the free will to choose whatever she wants.

I appreciate the bluntness. I have been choosing to detach every day. I won't lie... it is hard. But yes, I will be ok. I know that. I don't like my current reality and dealing with the pending divorce. But nothing I can do is going to change the current reality.

Thanks,
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