Update: So I regrteed my action on not being intune with her at dinner the other night, not giving her a hug when leaving and texting her not to try and set anything up with me anymore. I texted her yesterdya afternoon to try and do a "re-do" and she said she would think about it. After about 2 hours she called me (not texted) and agreed to go. I decided to take her to a nice shopping area of town because I was looking for a shirt. Long story short, we happily shopped for 3 hours and had a great dinner. While walking back to the car she grabbed my hand and held it on the way to the car. We engaged in a long hug when dropping her off at her car. It was the best night we have had together in at least 3 months since all of this blew up. NOW HERE IS THE KICKER: she is still "confused" on what to do. She is admittingly going out with OM tonight for a date. I kept my composure and told her that I cant do anything about that and i can only control myself. Is she breaking or something else? We are less than three weeks away from the divorce. Thoughts?
Me: 38 Her: 33 Bomb: 1/6/2017 Separated: 1/10/17 Together: 16 Years Son 12 Years Old She and Son still at the house Divorce Filed/Retracted Multiple Times Divorce: scheduled to be final 6/20/17