First time post feeling lost and confused

[KevinIn]

I want to save this marriage I think but the more she keeps telling people we are divorcing the harder I think it is going to be. She is a very stubborn person. She seems hell bent in breaking up this family, even told me to just move on like she is. I'm now not even contacting her. One word answers and today in face time with the kids I didn't interact with her one bit. If I don't instigate conversations then it's going to be easier for me to detach. Like I said I don't think anything i do will change situation so I'm moving on with or without her.

This sounds like something i would write. Verbatim. Same situation as me.

I can relate to the stubborn wife intent on breaking up the marriage.

I will say that I've made her crack a few times, where she momentarily may have questioned herself. Each time it was by using 180 techniques from my DB coach.

I'll have to follow you, since our wives are clearly in the same state of mind.

Good luck and stay strong.