I agree with you completely. And these have been my exact words to my W as soon as the separation began in November up until D day. All she keeps saying is 'it's too late'. If you love someone is it ever too late? You want someone to change but, you don't want to give them the chance or the time to do so - how does that make sense. It's so frustrating.
And to top it all off she has slated off our entire marriage and made me seem like a bad husband. Which is so hurtful. It seems our entire circle of friends has bought it too-she is the victim. Do people even think that there are two sides to a story anymore?
Nevertheless, I'm trying to implement whatever DB I can at this stage. I've Gone Dark for the last five days. But I'm really confused as to whether I should GAL and let it be seen that I'm doing well. Will she turnaround and say 'see your fine and doing great, so let's sign the papers and move on'. Any advice?
Me:35 W:35 M:5 T:7 NO KIDS S: 3rd Nov 2016 to 4th Feb 2017 BD: 7th Mar 2017 GD: 6 weeks
