You can't control what your W does. You can only control what you do. You should choose to do right no matter what your W chooses to do. You aren't a bad husband or a good husband by one action and you can't change the past. You can only change the present.
Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids 2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong 2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2 2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving