Oh, believe me. I didn't bring anything up. She initiated the conversation, I listened, validated and re-stated my boundaries (just in case she forgot). I don't avoid physical contact because I think it promotes reconnecting. But I don't initiate anything major. My hand on her shoulder or hip as I walk by, that kind of thing. And as far as taking it slow, I committed to a year on Jan 27th after that, with no progress made I think it will be time to move on...


M46 W48
M11 T14
S11 D8
BD: 2016/05/27
In-home separation: 2016/11/23
Nesting: 2017/06/11
W moves out: 2018/01/07
W goes public with OM: 2018/07/12
I ask for a divorce: 2018/12/14