Oh, believe me. I didn't bring anything up. She initiated the conversation, I listened, validated and re-stated my boundaries (just in case she forgot). I don't avoid physical contact because I think it promotes reconnecting. But I don't initiate anything major. My hand on her shoulder or hip as I walk by, that kind of thing. And as far as taking it slow, I committed to a year on Jan 27th after that, with no progress made I think it will be time to move on...
M46 W48 M11 T14 S11 D8 BD: 2016/05/27 In-home separation: 2016/11/23 Nesting: 2017/06/11 W moves out: 2018/01/07 W goes public with OM: 2018/07/12 I ask for a divorce: 2018/12/14