I have a really big philosophical and practical problem with some of this thinking woke up.
So, in your view, is the apology letter a bad thing? Or do you mean that it is OK for me to acknowledge and own the things that I have done wrong in the past, but have no expectations about it and not to assume that I made her feel the way she felt?
Originally Posted By: Vanilla
Sit by V and know this frees you to concentrate on you. It's a big job all on its own.
It certainly is. I've been blowing in the wind the last week or so, still haven't got my IC set up. Timing is everything with my work schedule.
-- Me: 47 WW: 35 SS: 17 D: 5 T: 7 yrs Engaged: 2 yrs OEA confirmed: August 17 2016 ongoing since April 2016. OEA continues (with occasional breaks) BD2 - W says will visit OM in Jan 18