The A talk is interesting to hear from men who have been the LBSer.
(I'm not getting all political here, I swear!)
Just saying that while affairs are always hurtful and I think always wrong, the causes are not all the same, and the ability to heal from them is not always the same.
Women TEND to have A's that are more emotionally important than purely physical As are, for men. So in some ways, these affairs are more likely to be justified in the women's minds and hearts. (One night stands are not what I'm referring to, btw).
Without addressing the emotional piece of the A's, there's not going to be a lasting reconciliation.
Just to be clear, the emotional piece may be all due to deficits in the wife, OR largely due to unmet needs in the m that the LBH really played a role in.
It takes a lot of bravery to own our parts in these painful ordeals.
Considering all the pain of these debacles, we should at least get our money's worth of growth.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
