Now that i've had time to think, one item stood out as perplexing - the wife supported the idea that no romantic partners can meet our kids until 6 months after a final divorce.
Since I know the OM is still in the picture, I'm not sure what she's thinking. In reality, i shouldn't care what she's thinking. I was just a little perplexed.
M:39 W:36 - D1:2 D2:6 11/19/16 BD1: ILYBNILWY, EA/PA Dec/Jan: MC, pursuing, not DBing 1/11/17 BD2: W wants 1 month break 2/1/17: Divorce Remedy. Start DBing 2/17/17 BD3: W - separation to start D process