I wish I had some helpful advice for you, but just rooting for you on this journey.
1. My W has been sitting on the D papers (all filled out) since January...hasn't filed...yet.
2. When I make a meal for the family...I do so for W too...and when she makes a meal for the family...she does so for me too...do what you feel is right...I think of HaWho...I'd do it for a houseguest.
3. I too feel relief when I know my W will be out for the day or the evening...I feel bad that I feel that way...but in the present situation, that's the truth.
Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids 2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong 2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2 2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving