Well, Monday we had another session and I again went in very open minded trying to be as undertanding as possible. However, I knew that she had been in contact with OM so I was really interested to see if she would volunteer this information. She didn't, but did admit to it after being asked. However, she shrugs it off as no big deal because "it's not the same as it was". They are "just friends now and the conversations are minimal". She can't grasp that this is still not acceptable for myself or the counselor. She thinks we are being totally unreasonable and controlling. I then told her in counseling that she is clearly free to choose to talk to him or do whatever else it is that she wants, but I will not be a part of it. So the counselor then asked "WW are you willing to go NO CONTACT with OM?" To which she said "no". My response was "well, I am done here then and there is no need for us to continue counseling together...I do hope that you (WW) will continue counseling to find your path in life."...And I thanked the counselor and walked outside. WW came outside seconds later and said she's done with counseling and done being told that she is immoral. She's tired of living up to society's expectations of what is moral and immoral. I just simply said to her that I am sure having these conflicting views must be difficult, and I wish it had never come to this. We parted ways and I honestly fel....I felt so bad for her. I felt like she will never be a whole person because she will never put in the work necessary. It was such a deflating moment actually.
