I'm just trying to figure out if I should move out. Or stay. I have an apartment that I own coming available. She thinks Im moving in because we both agreed to a divorce. Since then we have really chilled on the divorce talk. I want to just stay and not leave. But How do you go dark under the same roof? That seems ineffective to me. Im stuck at a crossroads.
Standard advice here is not to move out. Not sure why you should be any different.
Let her move out. One of the biggest mistakes you can make in a divorce proceeding is to move out.