I'm really curious, though, about something you said. The best thing I can do for my marriage is to get a good lawyer? You think me having a good lawyer helps with reconciliation?
WshIKnw,
I did put in parenthesis that the lawyer was to help protect your assets. I don't think the lawyer would help your marriage per se, but if you retain a lawyer it'll probably make your wife sit up and take notice. Right now she probably feels like she has you wrapped around her finger (she does). By taking definitive action (action, not words) to move on with your life, you're showing her that you don't need her in order to continue living your life to the fullest.
Which guy do you think she'll want; the one that wants closure or the one that's moving forward?
