I don't understand the backlash. Mentioning to her that I think we can rewind is just a last ditch effort to make sure she knows that I am willing to work on getting past all of it, including infidelity, that I do know about, before signing the papers and making separation complete. After that, it's all about detaching and forgetting about her. The money thing is in the way of that right now. How am I being stubborn and not listening, LITB? By the way, that right there is probably why my wife left me for someone else, but I don't understand how I am doing it right now.
M: 33, W: 30 @BD M 7, T 10 BD: Early Dec W left: Late Dec W got stuff: Late Jan W sent S papers: Mid Feb OM cnfrmd: Late Feb
Pain can yield tremendous growth OR everlasting sadness and bitterness.