What do you guys think? The point, again, is to first make sure she understands that I would be willing to try to get past everything that has happened, including cheating, and that I believe we can get past it. Then, if she doesn't care, I will make my offer to her, so that both of us can have closure, and I can start trying to detach. I have to be careful to not say that I forgive her, even though I do forgive her, even though I'm mad sometimes, to avoid legal problems with that.
WshIKnw,
Your wife doesn't care about closure or anything else for that matter. She wants to get as much as she can and move on. The best thing you can do for yourself and your marriage is get a good lawyer (to protect your assets) and get out and GAL (to protect yourself).
