I feel that I do, but is it only to "keep the family intact" or because I want what I can have? I dont think so, but its possible.
Well, the first thing is this - why. And then comes trust. If you can't fully, 1000000% trust her when she is "running late" or some excuse, then there is a huge flag that needs to be dealt with.
I can understand keeping the family intact. Hell, I wanted the same thing. But, knowing that the level of disrespect that has occurred, you must also ask yourself this - are you willing to keep her around because of your memories of what she was or are you afraid of being alone? The love isn't there...no person who loved would do what she did.
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Our son is not aware of what is going on. He will find out one day and that will suck.
He will. And it will more than suck.
There are moments in this life when you are so confident in the rightness of your actions, that not even for a second do you consider the option that you might be wrong.