Yes, I agree with the approach of having confidence in her - but stepping back from telling her what she needs to do.
It's her life to live after all..and whilst I think it's in any child's best interests to be in touch with Mum, it is best for them if she is as healthy as possible - ie: having worked her own way through some of this stuff.
You're doing a great job Irish
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We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus