Thanks Vapo. I'm totally with you on this. I have a very strong family support group. Only my mom knows what's going on but she is only a phone call away and has been helping with our kids since they were born. I have been picking up a lot of the slack around the house and with the kids (as much as I can for being out of the house 12 hours a day). I know my W is letting me do it bc it was one of her major complaints. But it's not 50/50 right now, it's more like 75/25. I don't complain to her about it, but I'm paying attention.


M46 W48
M11 T14
S11 D8
BD: 2016/05/27
In-home separation: 2016/11/23
Nesting: 2017/06/11
W moves out: 2018/01/07
W goes public with OM: 2018/07/12
I ask for a divorce: 2018/12/14