He sent you an email checking on you. Thats more than I would ever expect out of my ex's parents. Id say thats a good enough clue for now.
Originally Posted By: WshIKnw
What does it usually mean when people don't have anything to do with you? It means they are rejecting you. They don't like you.
This is mindreading. And I call BS. Theres plenty of reasons. As you say just below...
Originally Posted By: WshIKnw
I know that's not what it necessarily means in this case, but it _feels_ like they don't like me and don't give a s--t about me. And that really hurts. It hurts not knowing.
So, you see, your mind reading is actually hurting you. How can you better just accept that they are in a no-win situation? They are either going to alienate you or their daughter right now. How can you possibly expect they are going to choose you?
Originally Posted By: WshIKnw
And yes, I want to recruit help in waking her up. I want her to suffer for what she is doing. I want people to know what she is doing and make her hurt. And wake her up. She's not just hurting me. She's contributing to that family losing their father/husband.
She could use help. Thats for sure. But it cant be YOU behind it. All that does is put you and her in opposition.
I urge you to look again at your writing that I bolded. If you are feeling that way, how does that make you a 'good guy'? How is that representing someone she would want to come back to?
