Chris, I am not saying this to vilify your W, but really do not count on her playing fair and do not rely on her for anything, always have a backup plan ready. At the height of her madness my W would forget stuff, she was running around like a headless chicken. So anything with the kids I had a backup plan and it saved me numerous times. And also if you count on your W, and she fs it up, it will just build more resentment towards her and you will end up feeling bad and upset about it. A contingency plan saves you the hassle...
