I want so badly to know what people in her circle think of me and of what happened
Why?
Originally Posted By: WshIKnw
whether they know that man with a wife and four kids visits her at night.
Again, why?
These make it sound like you want them on your 'side'. To see you are the 'good guy'. That you want them to maybe talk some sense into her or something? Im not sure.
I really urge you to think about your goals in sending the email you proposed. And to think about why you want to know these things so badly.