I, for one, am happy to hear you may consider tuning in now and again. I believe everyone has valuable experience, whether the D was busted or not. I always thought your posts carried weight with newcomers on the board who did not know the first thing to do. And not just newcomers, but others as well, benefited.

In the beginning, to come here was therapy for me. I poured my heart into it. Quickly gained a reputation for long posts. blush Man, when I look back on those first few years........I don't when I ever slept.

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For now I will keep trying, but it doesn't make sense to me how the "vets" do it, they've been through this, do they not relive the pain as I feel myself doing?


Well of course, I come from the other side of the fence, so I can't answer for them. I suppose that's for each person to figure out for himself. Could you help guide another person by passing on information you have learned in a similar stitch, without describing details of your own MR? I really don't know what to tell you, Coconut. Some Vets never refer to their S, but focus on the poster. I don't think I could hang around daily, if it caused me more pain. Maybe it is still a bit soon?

It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!