She always did hide her phone but it was bit more over the last year or so.
There are some old friends that have re-emerged-I know most of them. They are more her friends than mine but still have been part of 'our' lives.
But, she did start building a new circle over the last year or so. I felt like she was starting to live a single life-this was one of my issues with her.
I still don't think there was any 'one' new friend as such. But, then again who knows. Maybe, I don't want to believe it.
Also, We hadn't been intimate for 9-10 months before the separation.
What I can't get over is how our circle of friends may be involved in this or on her side. Not sure if I'm being paranoid here.
Hello jbroken,
It is going to sound like an echo around here because I agree that you need to focus all of your time, effort and energy on yourself right now.
It would be helpful to stop mind reading and trying to figure out what is going on in her head. I know, easier said than done. Avoid social media or hide certain friends/family so that it isn't front and center. Do this to protect yourself.
It is estimated that one of every three married couples struggles with problems associated with mismatched sexual desire. Was this an issue previous to the last 9-10 months?
You are at a very fragile point in this relationship and it would be extremely helpful to know what your next move should be. Feel free to give me a call at 303-444-7004 to discuss how we can best help you determine what to do next.
Cristy
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