I'm sorry to hear about the papers - ugh...we all snoop(ed) from time to time, so no need to apologise. Over time I came to see the impact on me wasn't helpful and I naturally stopped. I still have one or two snoopable avenues, but I really couldn't even be bothered to look nowadays.

As for the papers, I can only tell you that from when H said he was filing for D and when he actually filed for D was around six months. So, please just live your life and try not to worry. Nothing is done until or unless it is done - and if it gets done, you'll come up with a plan and can post here for support and advice.

Xx

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus