Thanks bttrfly...I need to simply let her go. That is hard because I am the product of divorced parents and I always said that I'd make my marriage work no matter what. The problem with saying that is that it does take two people to make a marriage work.
I love the woman that she was for over 25 years and I truly believe that that person is still in there, but she is definitely hidden at this point. My faith and my kids are the things that are getting me thru this.
I thank everyone on here that have been thru this and continue to support those of us that are in the midst of it.
Me 49 W46 T25 M22 S22 D18 S13 W had EA Apr-Jul 2016 Dropped Bomb 7/9/16 ILYBINILWYA HER DIVORCE IS FINAL...8/18/17 Dropping the rope to SURVIVE & THRIVE!!!