WW wife turned WA what to do? Sandi2 anyone?

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Woke_up,
She says that I dont nurture relationships. I wasn't involved enough in things she wanted to do. I was working alot like 60+ hrs a week. She said we lost our connection, she things I am too black and white with my values. The last year she was really critical of me. But always trying to get me to do social things and I was burned out. Perfect storm.

I felt like we were super close before the kids came. Things got really hard for her. She said she felt like a single mom.

Im a good dad, I take the kids to church on sundays now and swim. I setup most of their activities. But its not a fair comparison. My wife only works 20-25 hrs a week. I pay for most things.

I am not chasing really but I have crossed thenline a little by telling her I didnt want the divorce. That Infelt guilty.

I go to thengym now 4 days a week, spend time with friends and do counseing. Just starting to branch out my interpersonal relationships. Othrwise trying to be a better dad. I quit all my extr work. Down to at most 50 hrs a week and getting more sleep.

Im worried that if Inchange the plan and stay home on the couch she will respond like I am trying to cornernor control her.