Ok all.
I need help with a reality check.
I know there is no hope for my marriage while the affair continues.

It seems from my reading on this site most situations like mine end in divorce without reconciliation.

I would like to reconcile with my W if she was truly broken over what has happened.

But it seems like that usually is not the case. God only knows.

thanks,
e

Me 38, Her 40
T-14, M-13, No kids
BD-1 4/14- EA/PA
BD-2 10/14- EA
BD-3 2/17- EA/PA
W Moves out 2.10.17 in with AP
W Served D papers 3.6.17
Divorce Final- 5.23.17