Wife left two days before our wedding anniversary!

[Bdog37]

jbroken, sorry to hear what you are going through. Just be thankful that you found this place as the advise you get and what you read will ultimately help you in the long run.

In regards to determining if an A is going on, I would not bother yourself with it. I would say to just focus on yourself and not worry about what she is up to. I know this is very hard to do, but you will just drive yourself nuts trying to find out who she is with and what she is doing.

I also wouldn't be contacting her family anymore. Unfortunately, blood is thicker than water so you might not get anywhere trying to convince them that she needs to work on your M. Same goes with the circle of friends you guys have. They may or may not be feeding your W with thoughts about how great D is, but none of that will matter. Ultimately, it will be your W's decision.

The best thing you can do now is to focus on GAL that does not involve your W. Letting go and moving on is so hard to do, but it will eventually help you heal from the devastating loss that you are feeling right now.