WAW and the Big D

[Chris73]

SAL27. I feel for you man. Lately I'm of the disposition that my W is not thinking clearly. I can't ignore what she says, I have to validate her feelings and ensure that she's not attempting to cross any of my boundaries. But I can't let her words get to me.

Just yesterday morning my W called me "hon" and then later that same day said that she wants to move forward with the separation/divorce process. Does this sound like a woman who knows what she wants?

I feel like women in these situations will do and say anything to justify their decision to exit the marriage and offload some of the responsibility on the LBH so that they don't have to bear 100% of the guilt for destroying the family.

My plan is to keep working on being a better me. To become the man that she'd be crazy to walk away from. But if she still decides to walk, I'll still be a better person...