Originally Posted By: jbroken
She always did hide her phone but it was bit more over the last year or so.

There are some old friends that have re-emerged-I know most of them. They are more her friends than mine but still have been part of 'our' lives.

But, she did start building a new circle over the last year or so. I felt like she was starting to live a single life-this was one of my issues with her.

I still don't think there was any 'one' new friend as such. But, then again who knows. Maybe, I don't want to believe it.

Also, We hadn't been intimate for 9-10 months before the separation.

What I can't get over is how our circle of friends may be involved in this or on her side. Not sure if I'm being paranoid here.


Why the first separation? Why the lack of intimacy?


Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids
2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong
2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2
2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving