Asked my apartment complex to take the wife off our lease today. It made me pretty mad at her for doing this to our family. I haven't had much anger, but for some reason it came out today.
M:39 W:36 - D1:2 D2:6 11/19/16 BD1: ILYBNILWY, EA/PA Dec/Jan: MC, pursuing, not DBing 1/11/17 BD2: W wants 1 month break 2/1/17: Divorce Remedy. Start DBing 2/17/17 BD3: W - separation to start D process
You are doing well, my friend. In some aspects, I'm still mad at mine for doing this. It comes in waves. But you did the right thing.
There are moments in this life when you are so confident in the rightness of your actions, that not even for a second do you consider the option that you might be wrong.
Usually, a good night's sleep takes care of my emotions such as anger. However, i woke up still mad at her. This wave of anger is definitely lasting longer than usual.
I need to make sure to get rid of the anger and get myself into a happy place before tomorrow's mediation meeting.
M:39 W:36 - D1:2 D2:6 11/19/16 BD1: ILYBNILWY, EA/PA Dec/Jan: MC, pursuing, not DBing 1/11/17 BD2: W wants 1 month break 2/1/17: Divorce Remedy. Start DBing 2/17/17 BD3: W - separation to start D process
There are moments in this life when you are so confident in the rightness of your actions, that not even for a second do you consider the option that you might be wrong.
Did that too. Thankfully I have a meeting later today at work that is going to be pretty painful, so then i can be mad at some employees instead. I'll just redirect the anger. Super healthy, right?
M:39 W:36 - D1:2 D2:6 11/19/16 BD1: ILYBNILWY, EA/PA Dec/Jan: MC, pursuing, not DBing 1/11/17 BD2: W wants 1 month break 2/1/17: Divorce Remedy. Start DBing 2/17/17 BD3: W - separation to start D process
There are moments in this life when you are so confident in the rightness of your actions, that not even for a second do you consider the option that you might be wrong.
We will be. The goal is for us to work it out together. Thats how its done at the place we found. Very collaborative, hopefully.
She will use her Female super powers on you, I was told by my GF that she did that, and warned me when I was going through my mediation, she said never be in the same room. Females are always 2 steps ahead of us, they will use their eyes, movements to manipulate us. Stay strong my friend, I would suggest reserving the right to use separate rooms if you can...just sayin'
M 21 years XW 43yo, me 41 yo S13 BD March 2016 - she asked me to patient... End of June - I started the D process. D final 2/23/17 "He who forgets will be destined to remember" Eddie Vedder
I go to a gym where they play the music really loud...no one can hear me screaming! It beats crying.
Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids 2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong 2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2 2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving
I second the separate room. Not for the female superpowers thing, but it sure makes it a hell of a lot easier.
There are moments in this life when you are so confident in the rightness of your actions, that not even for a second do you consider the option that you might be wrong.
I go to a gym where they play the music really loud...no one can hear me screaming! It beats crying.
What the hell, Gordie?
There are moments in this life when you are so confident in the rightness of your actions, that not even for a second do you consider the option that you might be wrong.
