So Confused and Conflicted (4)

[WshIKnw]

I don't think she would have just given up on our marriage so easily had that a**hole not moved in on her.

Not necessarily true... He is fulfilling an emotional need of hers and most likely would have sought it out on her own. If not with him then possibly someone else. Sorry to say, but I think she was done with the M before the OM came into the picture.

I think you are wrong about that. I think she would have stayed as long as she didn't find someone better. I just wish she would have been more focused on making our marriage what she needed it to be. But all she knew how to do, or wanted to do, was complain, and then act like things are okay, and write me sweet notes about how happy she is to have me, whether I improved on her complaints or not.