With all due respect, I disagree with skyhigh about the messaging--I think at this point it's time to go dark, no contact, and let him come to you. Then if he does, he can see your changes. He knows how you feel already and anything else looks like pursuing. If he doesn't come around, well then his actions are telling you he's not ready to. He may never. You can't know that right now.

Also, if there is any A still, he is not open to you right now. So keep your focus on you and your changes so you can start to detach a bit! It's time to let go of him and find yourself.

Blu

“Forgiveness liberates the soul. It removes fear. That is why it is such a powerful weapon.” – Nelson Mandela