She doesn't need to engage. Validate what may have merit but there is no point in arguing. H doesn't need her approval to end the M, and she doesn't need to agree with his truth. Just drop the rope.

Me: 36 H: 34
Married: 2004
S: 6
D: 4
Separated: 11/2012
Reconciled: 01/2014
Separated Again: 01/2017