I, too, am sorry it has come to this. Stay true to yourself and your children and fight for what is fair. You are the sane one right now in this situation. I am keeping you and your family in my thoughts and prayers.

I hate to ask...but please start a new thread and link up your threads when you get a chance.

Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to.
The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.